NEW EARTH & SACRED RELATIONSHIPS
- Satya Magdalena Yukti
- May 19, 2024
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 4, 2024
Now, stopping the judgement on other women and healing the sisterhood wound is not just about women and our relationship with each other. But this where we need to start. We need to learn the love, admiration and support instead of envy, competition and seeing danger in each other. We need to be the safe haven for each other. We need to do what we expect from men ourselves first. If we judge and compete, if we don’t know how to create safe spaces of understanding, feeling, being amongst ourselves, how can we expect that from men? How can we put all the burden on this one guy next to us, if there is so much we can do amongst ourselves, in sister circles, in our committed relationships to each other?
Now, that does not mean, we don’t need men. Nor does it mean we expect anything less from our men. It just means we are supported, loved and independent, that we have the committed relationship we need already. It means that we take responsibility for ourselves, value ourselves and each other, heal the wounds that are for us to heal within and among ourselves. It means that we know what woman power really means. We know what giving and receiving love, being there and showing up means. What full acceptance means. What does it take to go through shadows, give up beliefs and conditioning, to face and let go of pain and fear underneath them that shadows our eyes for seeing each other. Yes, we talk about woman power, but often underestimate it when it comes to our deepest needs that we have used to relate to romantic relationships only… Now, we can change that. And change happens and grounds itself in the deepest wounds we have in the sisterhood.
And yes, those wounds are related to sexuality, betrayal, judgement and misunderstanding, suppressing, denying and making wrong feminine crazy wild sexy and innocent expression in all the forms it may take. Just like the ones between feminine and masculine. It’s not just about women and men. Feminine and masculine as polarities and energies interplay in all of us, all humans. And, paradoxically, the worst toxic masculine expressions, the most painful wounds we inflict upon ourselves. For example judging another sister as slut, missing either her circumstances that need seeing with loving eyes or missing the freedom, purity and innocence in her because of our own beliefs and limitations, unhealed wounds… We are hurt when the man does not see us, but mistakes our words, actions or behaviours for something based on his own shadows that he is unable to see. But we do the same to each other… We need to stop that! We need ourselves in our power and freedom! The world needs us in our power and freedom! And we need the sisterhood, support, love and encouragement from each other so we can take all relationships back to sacred, ones we need, want and deserve!
Because it starts with us, women! Women, free in their love and sexuality will love men into their power too! And these men and women are free! These men & women possess enormous power, enormous energy, they know the Alchemy of Love. They know the Sacred Eros… They know the Innocence and Purity of the heart and bring this quality to any human expression… They know, ALL LIFE IS SACRED. They know, sacredness is not limited to marriage. They know, a happy prostitute can be the one showing us sacredness of love and life, while an unhappy married woman can do quite the opposite… Those men and women know, it is not about the outer form but inner quality. And they are concerned with that inner quality – immortal love and light in ones Heart. They live up to that, no matter what form their relating takes.
These men and women don’t need the promise of paradise in the afterlife. They don’t need a God mediated by church or letters of indulgence. They don’t go to war in the name of God. Their Paradise is here, their God is in their heart. Their body and pleasure are sacred. They know no sin. They know the Truth, they know Freedom, they know Love. They know EVERY RELATIONSHIP, each sharing of Love is Sacred, if it is authentic & real. They are not bound by Marriage, but free to marry, being first and foremost married to Life. They know how to be sexy & innocent as children at the same time.
They don’t demand or bargain. They share Love. They love. They don’t compromise, but make Sacrifice, if that is their Truth. Sacrifice means making sacred. What makes anything sacred is Love. And so Sacrifice is made with Joy & Grace, it is expanding Love, not shrinking it down, it is making way to, not giving up on one’s happiness & authentic needs…
These men & women are out of control. These men & women are building New Earth. And that feels dangerous for the ones still blind to see. So let us start seeing, sisters. Let us do our work. Let us lift the veils from one of the most dark spots in feminine expression. Let us give up on shaming & naming, and let us start seeing & admiring. Let us start giving permission to ourselves and other sisters to be in our full power. Let us encourage whatever comes from Truth & Love. Let us celebrate and welcome sacred whores again – within and without! That’s how we lift each other up and make feminine sacred again! So we can do the same for men and them for us.
Much Love
Satya Magdalena
